Being Nice
Thursday, August 28th, 2008Yesterday I went into my local, family-owned, print shop to buy some office supplies. I didn’t have any cash on me, and I paid by debit card. As I was walking out of the store I saw something else I wanted which sold for $2. I turned around and went back to the cashier, but was told there was a $5 minimum on debit purchases. I turned around to look for something else I might need, so I could pad out my bill, but he stopped me and just said “it’s ok, pay next time”.
I was floored. It’s a small thing, yes, but it was the sort of human gesture which made all the difference and made me all the more loyal to their store. It cost them nothing in the end, since I went back the next day to pay them back (and do some printing I needed to do anyhow).
I contrast that with experiences I’ve had at national chains, where the clerk has zero autonomy and can’t make any decisions. It can range anywhere from “I can’t make change for you unless you make a purchase” to the blatant apathy shown by too many retail clerks these days.
I don’t mean to pick on large chains - some of them have good service. Conversely, many family-owned businesses have awful service. If you take the time to find the good ones though, it really pays off.
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On the theme of being nice - I was downtown this morning, and happened to be looking at some ugly cigarette butts someone had thrown on the sidewalk. Just then a city maintenance worker just happened to come by to sweep them up. I know this sounds cheesy, but I said “thank you.”
His smile made me realize it’s probably not the sort of thing he hears often enough, even though it is important work.



